What’s In Her Tote: A Peek Into the Everyday Essentials of a Modern Cowgirl
Every modern cowgirl carries more than just items—she carries intention, grace, and a grounded sense of self. Her tote is less about convenience and more about connection: to her roots, her rhythm, and her rituals.
Whether she’s heading to the market, the stables, or a weekend escape, her bag is filled with pieces of her lifestyle—simple, soulful, and always practical. Peek inside, and you won’t just see what she carries—you’ll see what she values.
The Essentials: Beauty in the Basics
In every modern cowgirl’s tote, you’ll find her everyday non-negotiables: a linen-bound journal, a worn leather wallet, a hand-blended lip balm, and a pair of sunglasses that’ve seen every kind of sky.
These pieces aren’t flashy, but they’re well-loved, well-worn, and intentionally chosen. Each item adds ease and elegance to her day without weighing her down. Function meets form—because even the basics deserve a little beauty.
Here’s a curated list of currently loved brands that align beautifully with the Modern Cowgirl aesthetic and slow living values:
Linen-Bound Journal — Rifle Paper Co.
Elegant, timeless, and full of charm, their linen-bound journals are perfect for quiet morning thoughts or mid-day musings. The quality is tactile and nostalgic—just like flipping through a well-loved notebook on the porch swing.
Worn Leather Wallet — WP Standard
WP Standard wallets wear beautifully over time. Simple, practical, and effortlessly stylish— small-batch, rugged, and built to last. They feel Modern Cowgirl style in every way.
Hand-Blended Lip Balm — Henné Organics
Luxuriously natural and consciously crafted, Henné’s lip balms feel like skincare and slow ritual in one. Small-batch, organic ingredients and Scandinavian-inspired design make it a true modern cowgirl staple.
Sunglasses That’ve Seen Every Kind of Sky — Raen
With handcrafted frames and lenses built for clarity in sun-soaked settings, Raen sunglasses combine durability with California-cool energy. Their timeless silhouettes pair perfectly with windblown hair and open roads.
Nature’s Touch: Grounding Tools On the Go
She keeps something natural close at all times—a small pouch of lavender, a stone or crystal that feels like home, or a wildflower she picked on a morning walk.
These simple elements help her stay rooted, no matter where the day takes her. The scent of herbs or the texture of a smooth stone is a quiet reminder to breathe, to soften, to return to herself. These are not accessories—they're anchors.
The Practical & Poetic: Tools for the Unexpected
A paperback novel or a handwritten recipe card may find their way into her handbag too. She’s ready for a spontaneous picnic, a trail-side tea break, or an impromptu heart-to-heart. Her bag holds more than things—it holds space for possibility.
Here are some wonderful book recommendations for your modern cowgirl lifestyle.
Braiding Sweetgrass by Robin Wall Kimmerer
A poetic and profound celebration of plants, people, and reciprocity. Kimmerer, a botanist and member of the Citizen Potawatomi Nation, blends science with Indigenous wisdom in a way that slows you down and deepens your connection to the land.
The Rural Diaries by Hilarie Burton Morgan
An honest, funny, and heartwarming memoir about building a home, raising a family, and learning to slow down on a farm in upstate New York. From barn-building to soap-making, it’s a soulful look at rustic reinvention.
How to Be a Wildflower by Katie Daisy
This illustrated field guide is pure joy. With watercolor pages, whimsical prompts, and nature-loving affirmations, it invites you to step outside and live more wildly, slowly, and beautifully.
Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert
An inspiring book about creativity, courage, and living life with curiosity over fear. It speaks to the modern cowgirl’s inner artist—the one who dares to write, build, plant, or simply live boldly.
Live your self-confident life as a modern cowgirl and choose your most beautiful It pieces for everyday life in your handbag.